That One look !

Hi,

Before I start this story, I want to confess one thing: whatever I write here is absolutely true. Nothing is fictional.

Let’s begin—

That morning, I went to a salon for a haircut and beard trim, which cost me ₹150. At the end, I asked the barber to shave a line through my eyebrow, because I had seen many young people doing it and thought it looked stylish. But on me, it looked cringe. I even remembered my sister telling me, “Why are you acting like a chapri?” (Chapri means kiddo or rebel in Hindi — basically an insult).

Later, around 12:30 AM, I finished my duty in Electronic City. My room was in Marathahalli, and the only transportation available at that time was the airport bus, which cost ₹100 to my stop. I sat in the front because no one else was sitting there; only a few people were at the back.

The bus started moving. I put on my earphones and began watching Instagram reels about places near Bengaluru for a one-day trip. I was deeply lost in my phone. When the bus reached Silk Board, a lady got in with her boyfriend. He dropped her into the bus to go to the airport and then left.

She sat uncomfortably in the front, opposite me. After a few minutes, I noticed she was in an awkward situation. The man sitting next to her was staring at her like some hungry animal in a zoo. She couldn’t raise her voice or react — but should she really have to?

He took advantage of her silence and started showing her his number on his phone, giving her constant creepy eye contact. She was clearly uncomfortable.

My scrolling stopped for a second and I focused on what was happening. Hitting him wouldn’t have been a problem for me, but I didn’t do that.

Instead, I just gave him one strong angry look — a serious, direct eye-to-eye stare. He became uncomfortable, his confidence broke, and he couldn’t continue his nonsense. After a moment, he got up and moved near the gate. He even got off before his stop.

A few minutes later, I don’t know why, but the lady got up from her seat and sat beside me. I’m sure her opinion about me changed at that moment.

When my stop came, I stood up to leave. She thanked me with a small smile. I’m sure she reached her destination safely and comfortably.(28/11/2025)

36 question to the parter

The Experiment: "The 36 Questions That Lead to Love"

Arthur Aron's study focused on whether two strangers could develop a deep sense of connection quickly. The experiment involved:

Pairs of strangers asking each other 36 increasingly personal questions.
The questions were designed to gradually increase self-disclosure and vulnerability.
After answering the questions, the participants had to stare into each other’s eyes for four minutes without talking.
Key Findings
Participants who went through the exercise felt significantly closer than those who engaged in small talk.
Some participants fell in love, and one pair even got married six months later.
The experiment demonstrated that intimacy can be accelerated by structured and mutual self-disclosure.
Why It Matters
This study is still widely referenced in relationship psychology and dating research. The "36 Questions" have been used in matchmaking, therapy, and even pop culture (e.g., viral articles, TV shows, and dating experiments).

Set I: Getting to Know Each Other

1) Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

2) Would you like to be famous? In what way?

3) Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

4) What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

5) When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

6) If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?

7) Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

8) Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.

9) For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

10) If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

11) Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.

12) If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?

Set II – Deepening the Connection

13) If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future, or anything else, what would you want to know?

14) Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?

15) What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

16) What do you value most in a friendship?

17) What is your most treasured memory?

18) What is your most terrible memory?

19) If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?

20) What does friendship mean to you?

21) What roles do love and affection play in your life?

22) Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.

23) How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?

24) How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?

Set III: Building Emotional Intimacy

25) Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling…”

26) Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share…”

27) If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for them to know.

28) Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.

29) Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.

30) When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

31) Tell your partner something that you like about them already.

32) What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

33) If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?

34) Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?

35) Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

36) Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how they might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have choice ​

A Day in Bangalore

 Hello Bangalore 

Every time i come to Bangalore i tell my self Hello Bangalore ,every time i come to Bangalore with lots of expectations but many time i went back disappointed ,but never hate the City because i Love Bangalore very much .

    these time again came to Bangalore  with some hope and expectation ,as usual i started my car early in the morning like i always do ,and my Ford Car always ready for adventure ,these time morning around 6 to 7 near by Mulbagha there is huge fog block the road only i able to see the three feet road Infront of the car ,it is very common for me and my Ford Car ,i never tell any one about these scene actually i like nature to see not share  experience but these time unusually i pick my One plus Phone and capture the beauty of the road and climate ,I share those video in WhatsApp status one of my friend from college seen the video and call me and ask are in the way to Bangalore ? i said Yes .she also mention that i am on the way to Bangalore  .i said fine we meet in Bangalore ,the other day in Bangalore we texted and set a meet .

    here the story starts ,we planned to meet at evening ,actually she relocating her room she had a cousin with her that was the first time i meet her cousin very bright eyes ,long hair ,fair in color ,initially i don't have any idea about her  ,by day by day we affinely meet to gather and hangout to gather .

    my friend got little doubt about us ,are we getting closer or what ?she don't have clue that we are meet and hangout to gather   

HOW I BECAME AN IDIOT!

 HI 

My name is Rising Sun my father gave this name to me who things I am a Really Rising Sun but actually 

what a joke I am biggest Idiot of the century why I am saying this because a person can make one mistake once if the person make same mistake again and again called Idiot right! so that me Idiot, actually is used to make such mistake regularly not because intensely I addicted to do such thing   Hears like big failure story right Yes, it is

    By writing these Blog I really enjoyed the feel, I really heartfully writing the Blog not to impress any one just because to feel how Idiot I am, that's why I didn't mention my real name in the Blog if you want to know my name you can search in Sanskrit what is the Rising Sun name means hope some stacker will read the blog they try to search or short cut finding my Id ,that's what usually I do for every one ha ha ha! really I do the same Yes, I am a Stacker too.

    So, Lets enter into an Idiot Story First of all where should I start? I mean Yonger version of me or older version of me. Yes, these is the problem I have from my childhood giving option is to me was not to pick one yes you heard right I pick both options let me explain deeply if you love a girl and truly intent to make her your partner in that gap a other girl saw you and start to like you openly she proposed you what should I do I want both that's not my plan ,who planned these in my life? Giving option is very wrong to me right see my words also confuse everyone wrong right back-to-back I won't leave right I won't leave wrong; I want loved girl and girl who loves me 

      so, reading every one understand how idiot i am actually this reason i sample in my life I face many things like these I blog it one by one.